Law of Attraction Warning !

Tell me about your encounters with the secret…

The very best thing The Secret has done for me is to help me be crystal clear about exactly what I want. Answering the question, "What do you really want?" is actually very difficult for most people. But watching the secret led me down a path of self-inquiry to uncover my core desires. Now that I know them, and they inspire my passion, it is easy to think about them often and keep them at the forefront of my mind. I am working towards financial and career goals, health and weight goals, and relationship goals, and making progress towards each one. I have to suspect that the delay I experience in receiving many of these things has to do with my limiting beliefs, which I’m also working on. Many of the tools I found at http://www.lawofattractiontoolsite.com have been really helpful on this journey.

What helps you focus? How do you visualize? What do YOU do?

Wasn’t sure what category to post this because its a God given law of the universe…

Learning how to use the law of attraction to create a new path for yourself or to manifest more of whatever it is that you really desire can pose a challenge for many people. For one, we are brought up with limiting beliefs that we keep with us even into adulthood. And these beliefs can really hamper our successes that we enjoy along the way.

Listen for Instructions

When using the law of attraction, it’s necessary to take a little quiet time in order to listen to your intuition to find what your next step should be. This is so your Higher Self, no matter what you choose to call it can speak to you in that "still, small voice" that holds all the wisdom you need. The best way to do this is to simply be still for five to thirty minutes. By doing this in the morning and in the evening, you’re sure to get the calm, peace of mind needed to listen to your inner voice thoughout the day. When you’re in tune with you inner self, you’re able to be "in the flow" so to speak, and you’ll be more open to ideas that you flash upon.

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What is it? How can I put it into work into my life?

The SECRET IS the law of attraction- what you think about and feel about and are passionate about will manifest itself in your life. This happens with BOTH positive and negative thinking…The law if attraction has worked for me my entire life, not just since I have read the book. The book illustrates how many people in the world who have mastered using it and have bettered themselves by using the secret, and they are sharing their experiences and their insight with you. I refer to the book and watch the movie on a weekly basis.. — It is very motivational. If you want to know how to put it to work for you, you have to ASK for Something, Believe that you deserve it, and then Receive what ever the "it" is..

Yeah. It was like a documentay of some sort; about cause and effect. It’s called "the secret".
It said that some actions or feelings can be compounded if i’m not careful. If I’m positive i will be surrounded with positive things. If I am negative, i will be surrounded with negative things and experiences. It was the one that said that if I imagined having the car of my dreams, i can trick my mind into really having it today, causing an attraction in the universe that will one day allow for me to have it in real life?

Is there any truth in this?

Should I really believe that?

Here it is short and sweet.

Yes you can have it but:

You really have to believe you will get it.
You really have to believe you are worthy of it.
You really have to believe God wants it for you

The reason things take so long to manifest is because we are so full of doubt.

That simple

I think it would be incredible to believe in the law of attraction or anything similar, but isn’t it kind of flawed? If the law of attraction was as easy as it sounds, wouldn’t we all have attracted a lottery win?

Most people consider that the only power they have, to obtain what they want or need, is either blind luck or continuous prayer. The law of attraction is a form of communication between you and the universe and an understanding that there is something ‘out there’ with more intelligence, resources and knowledge than we possess…and that intelligence is willing to help us obtain what we ask for. What most people fail to recognize is that we also need to do the work. Speaking for only myself, I generally make the request to my guides but that is only the start and where most people lose faith, because of the lack of return. It is imperative that you actually visualize what you want or need, imagine yourself with it already in your life and emit the emotional energy that you would actually feel. It is also highly suggested that you realize making the simple request and visualizing the positive outcome is not a one-time thing. Basic to many forms of magic and their varied disciplines is the notion of: "As above, so below." What this means is that for anything to transpire in the physical world, it must first take form and shape in the realm of spirit. Depending on your urgency, you need to regularly take a moment (a few times a day is a minmum) and actually visualize….and you need to continue to feed it emotional energy. Many people consider that task complete once they asked their god and assume his hand will reach down and magically knit the solution for them. I’m not disparaging religion or faith in the Divine. Another aspect that keeps people from getting results is the time factor. Many times, I have asked for small things (a few extra dollars for lunch when it was close to payday as an example) and have included a time limit. That isn’t always feasible for the universe to take care of in a very short space of time. Consider the number of variables involved in a person actually winning a lottery or suddenly obtaining a large sum of money. There is a LOT going on behind the scenes as the universe does its best to supply us from its unlimited wealth. In answer to your question, though, it is a very effective method of obtaining what we need and is quite easy to do with minimal skills but there is some work involved and most don’t understand that aspect. I have found this extremely beneficial for short-term (up to 6 months or so) manifestations but shy from anything long-term. Because of how much change we undergo, even in the space of a short year, what seemed imperative to own or have during one month may be viewed quite differently a year later. And our needs change as well. It comes down to the old saying, "You don’t get nothing for nothing." If one is not willing to make an effort and tend to their request like a gardener and his favorite plants, one will have great difficulty with manifesting the life of their dreams. An associated approach that has been immensely beneficial for me is in the use of sacred signs to determine a course of action that is in my greatest and highest good. It is also a form of communication, requesting a specific sign from your guides, in a specific period of time. I never use the Law of Attraction until I have ensured that what I want is beneficial to me and my ability to help others and fulfill my purpose. It is easy to do, but one has to be willing to do the work.

I have the SATs in a few weeks and I believe in the law of attraction, but I am not a master at using the law of attraction and i was wondering how should i act and what should i be saying/affirming to get a good score?

Thank you to everyone who is answering..I am forever grateful.

First: Positive thoughts about the test

Second: Visualize every day you receiving your score and being happy at the results.

Third: Make positive affirmations like: " I have now received a really great SAT score" or " I am proud and happy at the excellent SAT score I have now received." Write your own. Just keep them positive.

Fourth: Do not let negative thoughts and doubts linger in your mind for too long. That will sabotage your goals.

Fifth: As God and your spirit guides for help just as you are starting the test. Ask that they give you a clear mind and correct answers.

Say a study was done on the law of attraction. If the chosen people for the study werre skeptics, the study would not work.

But you can also read about thousands upon thousands of people claiming that they attracted wealth, happiness, and other things into thier lives. I, myself am a believer. I can not tell you how many times a day I say the words, "what are the odds of that?"

So Im a believer, and Ive met other believers. Ive also met skeptics. it doesnt work for them becuase they dont believe.

So how can a clinical scientific trial even be scientific, if the test is required to explore all variables?

Does anyone see a way around this?

There’s nothing scientific about the law of attraction. It’s simply a self-fulfilling prophecy. You believe in it first, then when you get something you want, you chalk it up to the law of attraction. If you don’t get what you want, you chalk it up to you not wanting it badly enough. It’s not falsibile and so is not fit for scientific study. The psychology of it is very similar to those who believe in the power of prayer.

If "like attracts like," does that mean these children are abusers, or that they asked the universe for abuse, or ….?

Does the Law not apply to those who cannot control their thoughts?
Since when does the law of attraction discriminate? Isn’t energy energy? Regardless of whether it is a child or adult?

Instead of asking did the children, children’s energy, or children’s thoughts BRING ON the abuse, I tend to look at it as the abuse was brought on by the negative energy exercised by the abuser. The children were, for all intents and purposes, innocent.

Can it work? Will it work more so with personality descriptions rather than with physical qualities?

The law of attraction works perfectly every time. It can work for or against u. Just like gravity. It can work for u to keep u from spinning off the planet, or against u if u lean too far over the edge of a cliff! But the law of attraction works through ur thoughts and most importantly through the predominate thought u think most of the time. So if ur predominate thought is that relationships are a lot of work, then u will attract partners and situations that are a lot of work. If ur predominate thought is that all the good ones are taken, then u will tend to meet people u like and could be interested in, who are already in a relationship with someone else.

The second step is to know and accept that the Law will work and produce what u give ur attention to. So if within ur wanting to find that perfect partner u are more focused on the "wanting" and therefore on the fact that u do not have, then that is exactly what will continue to show up for u, more wanting and pinning over the fact that u are once again alone. . To change this, begin to experience and visualize what it is like to have the person of your dreams at u side. That’s right, daydream! Vividly pretend! Get the feeling u will have when that person is right there.
Finally, allow the Law to work for u Trust that it is working for u. And go out and do things that allow you to feel at u best. Then just keep ur eyes open and notice what shows up.

Say I am very possitive about my business flourishing. Then my business partner (who wants the same) instead of focusing on the possitive is always fearful and thinking about a disastrous failure in the business.

Say both have the same "intensity" in owr possitive and negative "frecuencies".

What happens with the "law of attraction" in that case?

Maybe a universal paradox which would likely distroy the whole Universe.

pos que no viste la pelicula guey los pensamientos positivos son mas poderosos que los pensamientos negativos segun dicne estas gentes entonces aunque ambas personas tengan la mima intensidad en sus pensamientos los positivos deben de ganar por ejemplo el pensamiento de ya mandame mi ropa

I want to gain 2-3-4 inches to become taller. I am 5"5. Please describe in detail if its possible.
Thanks in advance

when you look in the mirror, imagine yourself being taller.
write on a piece of paper that you are taller/tall and on the back of it write the reasons why you are (it sounds silly but it works haha)
before you go to sleep or something, repeat to yourself in your head that you’re taller/tall.
don’t have any doubt in your mind and don’t use negatives (i.e. i don’t want to be short)

i don’t know why you’d want to be though haha, i’m 5’5" and i wish i was shorter.

In the book the "the secret", It says that the law of attraction is like attracting whatever you think into your life. So whatever situation you are in now, you attract it into your life because of your pass thoughts. It also says that the Universe is like a genie; it’s like your wish is my command. You got to ask, believe, and receive. It’s similar to the bible. You pray to God and ask for whatever you want and you receive it when you get blessed. So I believe that God is the Universe.

I agree with you 100%.

say there are 2 bodies A and B. suppose A and B are in contact. Then the distance between them becomes zero.
let the mass of one body be m1 and the other m2, the distance between them r = 0
then, according to the universal law of gravitation,
F(force of attraction) = G X m1 X m2 / r^2
= G X m1 X m2 / 0^2
= G X m1 X m2 / 0
= infinity (because (any number not equal to 0) / 0 = infinity)
so does this mean A attracts B with infinite force? but how is this possible?

It is not the distance between the surface of the objects that matters, but the distance between the objects center of mass. If your bodies A and B had an overall dimension of zero (i.e. black hole like singularities) then your reasoning would be valid. But in reality, the distance between the two bodies, even when they are touching, is radius of A plus radius of B (assuming they are both homogeneous spheres).
To figure out how much you weight right now, you are to assume that you are 6370 km from the center of the Earth, that is the "r" of the equation.

Exp. if you are a positive person you attract positive people or negative people attracting like people. Winners attracting winners losers attracting losers. Or Deep minds attracting one another do you agree on this?

laws of attraction….omg! i believe that in the laws of attration different people attracts with eachother. its always been this way. you are attracted to a person that is entirely different from "you" because that person is everything you wish you are or you wanted to be

How can I to transform parts of my body?

I’d like to make my feet smaller. My skin a even brilliance in chocolatly color and my hair grow in long thick kinky curls and my eyes a brilliant grey.

I love my body, but I’d love to see it as in my fantasies.

What can I do. How can I start.

Has anyone else used l.o.a to transform themsleves?

well its called a "i can do attitude" one day you gotta go for it and get it all your wants ..i mean if your trying to makeover yourself,i don’t know about shrinking feet..lol you can sike yourself out…

meditation and spiritually getting in touch with your inner soul is need to be truly happy..

but that most likely happen when something or someone violates you or your family then you grow into a higher power and i will say it is a wonderful thing,just some dont get it others wont know if they get it,just stay sane.

even if its as a friend. i am living long distance from him now. in another state. however he has my number and email address.
is there any methods to attract him to contact me again?

the laws of LIFE says ‘when its over, its over" you need to accept this. you also need to learn about the law of detachment. where, you willingly let go of wanting to attract him (and anything from him), hope that one day you will meet again, but nonetheless let go. Then it wil likely happen.

I mean I’ve read about it and stuff and there have been a few times where I imagined something and it happened in real life exactly how I imagined it, like I mean EXACTLY. But I don’t really believe in the Law of Attraction. I’d like to believe, but I don’t. Does anybody really believe in it, and how can you prove it’s real?

Cos if something doesn’t "manifest", believers could just say "you didn’t think hard enough", and then what am I supposed to say lol?

The law of attraction works whether you believe in it or not. It’s not a belief system, it’s simply a way to attract what you want into your reality.

There really isn’t any need to ‘prove’ the law of attraction works to others, as long as you know that it works for you all the time. I know that it works for me all the time, every time, because I always get exactly what I want.

I watched the movie the secret and I watch it weekly and I am trying so hard to stay positive, then I go back in a slump, crying etc and become doubtful. Has it helped anyone else?

Dogmatic belief in this unjustified notion is irresponsible.

As I responded earlier– (did you post this same question yesterday?) This concept is not falsifiable, since the contrapositive of "If you want x, you will get x" is "If you don’t get x, you don’t want x" — and NO ONE can ever determine what a person "truly wants," not even themself.

But it’s absurd to think a starving person in Africa doesn’t really want food, and not because he’s in a desert and a warzone…

And, as I’ve said, even though these quantum pseudo-scientists back the notion with their "science," it’s nothing but a re-hashing of Hinduistic karma, which appeals to our "protestant," individualistic ideals as Weber articulated.

The fact that wave functions "turn into" particles when observed, DOESN’T MEAN WE CONTROL REALITY WITH OUR MINDS.
We simply treat the wave function qua wave UNTIL we observe it. That doesn’t mean we create reality, but that, at the limits of observation, being an observer changes the nature of a particular experiment. The metaphor cannot be extended into your financial goal-seeking.

Totally inaccurate and irresponsible self-help pablum.

I am doing some research and would love to hear your personal story of the success or failure you have found using the laws of attraction or the secret.

Thanks!

Well, one time I spent all my money…it was $16 and I was distressed because it was all I had…but I had forgotten that and accidentally spent it all. I centered myself and told myself to stay positive. I kept thoughts in my head like "I am always provided for, I am always taken care of, all is well." and about five minutes later, I found a wad of money on the street. The most amazing thing was, it was $16 exactly. No joke, true story.

A few times I have gotten pizza at work because I really, really wanted it. Each time, someone from a different department would poke their head in and tell me that they had left over pizza from a conference.

The times that it has worked the best for me, is when I don’t think about the law of attraction. I just want something and I really, really want it. I find myself just thinking about it and wanting it and that is when it comes to me.

If I sit down and pick something out that I want…like a million bucks, it’s not the same.

First off, I have never had a million bucks so I don’t know what that’s like. I know what pizza taste like though and I know how much I love it I know it’s possible for me to have without a doubt in my mind.

I think that’s why it’s so easy to manifest everyday things and so hard to manifest big things. Strong, pure desire seems to remove all obstacles in manifestation.

Trying to manifest a large amount of money is hard because the desire to do so is clouded with questions…sometimes fear. Like what if your Grandma dies and that’s how the money comes to you. Or just pondering how it’s going to come to you. You get stuck in your head and that totally dilutes that strong, passionate desire.

This is what I have found in my experience anyways. I have had other great results with the LOA but I think this answer is long enough already.