I want to use the law of attraction (as described in the secret) to get this girl that I’m interested in. How can this be done? How can I understand the law of attraction more, and apply it to my life? It has really intrigued me. Serious answers please.
The law of attraction for a fact has no solid scientific basis yet so far. Although there are a lot of claims from various individuals that it works. Being myself a positive thinker, I guess it is just my nature, I do believe in the idea and it works a lot of times with me.
Your question is how you could master the law of attraction in relation to the girl that you really like. First, you have to remember always that the law is all about affirmation of what you feel and think. If you want the girl to reciprocate in liking you as you like her, in my experience, I focused on five things:
1. how to get her attention in the most positive way, For instance just focus on how you feel about her by acting it out in the most positive way. Show that you are trustworthy, honest and thougthful. This may take time, but show that you really enjoy every moment of your time with her. Demonstrate what is meant by care and patience. Demonstrate prudence.
2. Once you have her attention, do anything that would develop her interest in you by demonstrating that you have what it takes to be a good and trustworthy partner in life. Don’t force her to enjoy with you but rather show all the time that you enjoy your moments with her. This unrelenting attitude of enjoyment with her everytime you are together eventually would attract her to you.
3. When her attention progressed into interest, begin to develop her desire to be with you and eventually accept you as a trustworthy friend. Always affirm your positive feelings with her to yourself.
4. Lastly, when her Attention, Interest and Desire (AID) is already there, you actually can feel it, I’m sure. Take ACTION by having the courage and strength to propose to her. If the AID is not yet obvious to you, wait for the right time. Remember, take patience and be always prudent in all your ways with her. If you are really positive all the time, you will know when is the right time and only you can tell this.
If you really want her, you will certainly have her in God’s time. God will never fail you as His child. So keep on affirming what you want until you have it.