Anyone who practises the law of attraction and believes in it, could you enlighten me?
How do i use this law to attract someone I’m attracted to? Or at least to see a desirable outcome.Assuming that we are strangers but see each other in the bus everyday. I’ve read about the postive feelings and vibes and all, but what kind of words do i really use to incite such feelings?
Thanks alot =)
It isn’t a law. It is a theory. If it were a law, we would all know the answer to your question.
I personally have had success with attracting interest and I have had faliures of attracting a man.
There is something about your eyes. I hate to admit it, but it is possible for anyone to use their eyes to attract. Make eye contact, tilt your head a bit and smile like you know a secret.
omg I can’t believe I just wrote that.
I also found that pushing your self on a guy is a huge turn off for him. You do need to set yourself in his line of vision. Ask him the time or comment on something that is in your view. Like …….
did you see that car almost hit that guy.? A few years can lead to a whole conversation.
Show a balance of confidence and vulnerability. Liike he might ask to lift your bag on the bus, say oh thanks I got it, but thanks for asking. I will be sure to take you up on it next time.
Or…..ask him if he can help you. You need to know the fine line of what a guy is like. Some are very much a gentlemen and some think girls are capable so why help.
Do something that catches his eye. This is hard to set up, but if the oppertunity happens you can say something funny.
Today I had a neighbor man offer to take my garbage to the dumpster. He offered this becasue my dog got out the door and I had to chase him down. This gave me the oppertnuity to say, hey we see each other all the time and I don’t even know your name. Now when we see each other we say hi and if there is time to chat a bit we do. I am not setting out to connect with him, but if I wanted to I could. After all we are both single.
The best thing is to depend on your natural charm and personailty. If he doesn’t like the real you, he surely wouldn’t like a pretend you. And it would be hard for you to maintain that level of artifical personalilty. But, there is nothing wrong on working on making a connection.
There is no law against or for that.
And I do agree with Dr. Bob
I also believe in chemistry between a man and a woman.